Thursday, January 26, 2023

Martindale Hall and its home library

Martindale Hall, built in 1889, has 32 rooms and a large cellar of seven rooms. What dazzled me though in this Georgian-style mansion built in the 1800s is the home library with its fabulous collection. It does not hurt that this library also has a pool table and a mini bar.  Cheers to the "baronial" lifestyle!

Martindale Hall
Manoora Road, Mintaro, Clare Valley
South Australia 5415
https://martindalehall.com.au/
https://southaustralia.com/products/clare-valley/attraction/martindale-hall












Sunday, January 15, 2023

Spare by Prince Harry (January 2023)


Spare is a royal tantrum of majestic proportions: the prince took swipes at people from his childhood, aired dirty linen in public, griped about his perceived financial destitution, gloated over his war games, advertised his philanthropic activities, worried about his nether regions, reminisced his pre-Meg romances, justified the wild partying, and yes, rolled weed.  While he vociferously justified why he came out with the book, it is incomprehensible why he provided all this fodder as he has incessantly complained against the relentless viciousness of the media. Early in the first chapter, he referred to Wallis Simpson as "notorious" which in the scheme of things, is preposterous as the Sussexes have made Edward and Wallis's exit look like child's play.One does understand the Eton teacher's frustration when he vented:

I cannot fathom it, Wales. We’re talking about your blood relatives – does that mean nothing to you?

 To which the Spare, replied:

Less than nothing, sir. It wasn’t just that I didn’t know anything about my family’s history: I didn’t want to know anything.

The unfortunate thing is, at the end of the book, Charles's darling boy doesn't feel darling at all with his moaning and groaning. Matters which are being pushed by the House of the Sussexes - racial discrimination, mental health, tabloid reporting, and violation of privacy – were eclipsed by the prince’s whinging and the travails of his privileged life. What Spare successfully did was bolster Hilary Mantel's observation in 2013:

I used to think that the interesting issue was whether we should have a monarchy or not. But now I think that question is rather like, should we have pandas or not? Our current royal family doesn’t have the difficulties in breeding that pandas do, but pandas and royal persons alike are expensive to conserve and ill-adapted to any modern environment. But aren’t they interesting? Aren’t they nice to look at? Some people find them endearing; some pity them for their precarious situation; everybody stares at them, and however airy the enclosure they inhabit, it’s still a cage.


(PS. The infamous Henry VIII was a spare too. And look what he became when his brother passed away and he became the heir.) 


Wednesday, August 24, 2022

Dreaming with Eyes Open

Aspiring to be the next Ronaldo. 



 


Friday, April 22, 2022

Book Now

We are in Bendigo this weekend to see the Elvis Presley exhibit.  I was sorely tempted to give the King of Rock and Roll a pass and stay instead in this bookshop - nay, a book house. A day is simply not enough. This is serious stuff. Bring a truck with you when you decide to visit this oasis.













Book Now

1 Farmers Lane, Bendigo, Victoria
Australia 
+61 0354438587

Elvis Presley's Travel Bookcase

The Bendigo Art Gallery is presenting from Graceland, various costumes, vintage memorabilia, and personal effects of Elvis Presley. The exhibit runs from 19 March to 17 July 2022.

Who would have thought that the King of Rock and Roll owned not only a bookcase, but a Travel Bookcase!

 “This bookcase was found on Elvis’s private plane, the ‘Lisa Marie’ by the Graceland Archivists. He used this case to transport books while touring. Elvis was a reader of eclectic materials, but with particular interests in spirituality, politics, and history. ‘The Prophet’, the classic 1923 volume of poetic writing by Lebanese-American author Kahlil Gibran, was one of Elvis’s favourite texts which he gifted to many friends. Elvis’s passion for spiritual and philosophical explorations was encouraged by Larry Geller, his personal hairdresser and confidence during the 19602 and 1970s, sometimes creating tensions within the Graceland entourage."









Sunday, February 20, 2022

Gatsby and beyond

 The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald (1925)

Who has not laboured in undergraduate school pondering what makes Gatsby great? We're talking of Jay Gatsby, owner of a splendid mansion in West Egg, host to ostentatious parties, and who carries his expensive suits with aplomb. Everyone speculates that a dark shadow lurks in his past and Mr Gatsby is not who he says he is. Nick Carraway, Gatsby’s neighbour, slowly develops a sympathy for Gatsby. He finds out that his cousin, Daisy Buchanan, is the key to unlocking the enigma. In a previous lifetime, before Daisy became Mrs. Buchanan, there was Daisy, Jay, and a future full of possibilities.

I first read this book more than twenty years ago and it continues to be a favourite. Perhaps it’s because of Gatsby’s tunnel vision to improve himself and attain his dream. Maybe it’s because of the freedom, sultriness, and sophistication that envelope this book.  It could be the realisation that notwithstanding the disparateness in class and wealth, people can be happy and unhappy in almost equal measures. Or it may be the beautiful conversations: sonorous, elegant, and saturated with unarticulated meanings and desires. There’s also that enunciated contempt and cynicism, They were careless people, Tom and Daisy—they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness, or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made.” And of course, there is the hot reverberating anger of Nick shouting across the lawn, “You’re worth the whole damn bunch put together!” It may also be how the whole story ended – with a bang, literally. 

 

Beautiful Little Fools by Jillian Cantor (2022)

Jillian Cantor is not letting things be. Fitzgerald ended “The Great Gatsby” as an open-and-shut murder and suicide case. It also left in its wake, a general impression of vapid, selfish women. Cantor gives these women the time of day in her new book.

There’s Daisy Buchanan who has a back story to why she went off and married Tom and his wealth. Jordan Baker and her grit to succeed a male-dominated sport and tackle prejudices head-on. Catherine McCoy who refuses to accept that men are the answer to women’s aspirations and who believes that women should be given the opportunities to run their lives on their own terms. There is an outcry running in this book that women have had enough of the patriarchy and that henceforth, they will take matters into their own hands.

Cantor is so deft in her storytelling that at the end of the book, we walk away cheering Daisy, Jordan, and Catherine with the thought crossing our minds that, “Hey, Mr Gatsby wasn’t that great after all” and that these beautiful women were most definitely not little fools.

Postscript:

The characters in Cantor’s book seemed to have imbibed a prodigious amount of mint julep and gin rickey that I thought of making these:

Mint Julep

Ingredients:
2 ounces bourbon
¼ ounce simple syrup
8 mint leaves
Garnish: mint sprig
Garnish Angostura bitters (optional)
 
Directions:
Place the mint leaves in the bottom of an old-fashioned glass and top with the sugar.
Muddle these together until the leaves begin to break down.
Add a splash of seltzer water, fill the glass ¾ with crushed ice.
Add the bourbon.
Top with another splash of seltzer, stir, and garnish with a sprig of mint.
Serve immediately
  
Simple Syrup
Ingredients:
½ cup granulated sugar
½ cup water
Directions:
Add the sugar and water to a small saucepan over medium heat
Stir until sugar is dissolved
Let cool, then pour into a glass jar and seal tightly with a lid.
(will keep for about a month, refrigerated)
  
Gin Rickey
Ingredients:
2 ounces gin
½ ounce lime juice, freshly squeezed
Club soda, to top
Garnish: lime wheels
Directions:
Fill a highball glass with ice.
Add the gin and lime juice.
Top with club soda.
Garnish with 2 lime wheels. 

Tuesday, February 8, 2022

How to do an ending

 

“A story has no beginning or end: arbitrarily one chooses that moment of experience from which to look back or from which to look ahead.”
― Graham Greene

It is said that “there is more than one way to skin a cat”. There is also a song that laments, “breaking up is hard to do”.  Saying goodbye can be abrupt, decisive, and final. It can be cruel and malevolent. Or it can be a drawn-out experience: excruciating, philosophical, and cathartic at the end.

 This Is Not How It Ends by Rochelle Weinstein (2020)

Charlotte and Philip’s story is a cosmopolitan fairy tale: wealthy, dashing man meets pretty, young bookworm and they live happily ever after in Islamorada. Well, not quite. Philip is one busy man but after he got engaged to Charlotte, his business trips became inexplicably prolonged. Charlotte, after weighing things, decided on a painful course of action only to backpedal after a shattering experience. Running into an upscale New York restaurant called TINHIE, however, changed everything.

 


The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes (2011)

Tony Webster’s story unfolds slowly, gently, and then jarringly. At his age, he thinks life has become peaceable and should not hold any more surprises. After all, hasn’t he managed to stay friends with his ex-wife and maintain a good relationship with his daughter even after his divorce? Then out of the blue, he received a letter informing him that the mother of Veronica, girlfriend from a previous lifetime, has bequeathed to him some money and two documents. He is forced to confront a past that he had perfunctorily whitewashed. And here lies the heart of the matter as Veronica has jarringly put across Tony: “You don’t get it, but then you never did.”

 


The End of the Affair by Graham Greene (1951)

Maurice Bendrix, a writer of some fame in the 1940s, sought out Henry and Sarah Miles, with the intention of surreptitiously gathering material and inspiration for his next book. Little did Maurice know that he will be catapulted into a relationship of unimaginable jealousy, suffering, and rage at how the universe has decided to arrange itself. This is a book that exhaustively takes on the moral aspects of a complicated relationship and its theological and mystical ramifications.

 


How does one know that it is the end? Graham Greene’s Bendrix rationalised: “Nothing in life now ever seems to end. Chemists tell you, matter is never completely destroyed, and mathematicians tell you that if you halve each pace in crossing a room, you will never reach the opposite wall, so what an optimist I would be if I thought that this story ended here.”